An article By: Larry D. Miller What causes someone to cheat? There may be any number of issues that are happening not only in the relationship but within the individuals involved in the relationship. Many couples that have had cheating enter their relationship will probably say they never saw it coming. It’s most likely that they did but chose to turn a blind eye to it. Denial is a defense mechanism in an attempt not only to protect the heart but the mind. If I don’t acknowledge it I don’t have to deal with it. It doesn't exist. One of the most prevalent snake bites in the relationship is a breakdown in communication. This can occur not only with one another but with one’s self. Ignorance is bliss. Or is it? Most experts would probably say you have to deal with the elephant in the room. Whether it be issues about work (too much or too less etc.) Money, the children or not having the intimacy you once enjoyed early on in the relationship. You mus...
“What are we doing, are we just going through the motions of a dying love affair? We are two people riding the same train but with different destinations”. Looking back it might not be so hard to understand how you ended up here. It is what it is It is what it is. At least that’s what I’ve heard people say. But is it really though? It’s funny in a sense. Life takes some amazing and some not so amazing twist and turns. It throws you for loops, riding the adventures of the highs and the lows. Do you sometimes get the feeling that there always seem to be more lows than highs. To use a couple of analogies- it might feel like you are always just trying to keep your head above water. And what happens if neither of you know how to swim? Eventually you both drown in an emotional pool of despair. Second, it’s like riding one of those mechanical bulls, it starts out nice and easy and you start to feel like yeah I got this. Then it speeds up jerks ...
First Times There’s the first time you touch her, the first time you caress her and then there is the first kiss. The first kiss can make or break you in the beginning of your courtship. If you go in wrong it’s a wrap. For example No woman wants to feel like they are about to be swallowed whole as you come in with mouth wide opened. Make careful use of the tongue, wait for her if she slips you a little you can reciprocate but don’t try to touch the back of her throat. Remember it’s the first one. Take your time put some passion and tenderness in it and make it the most soul stirring kiss she’s ever had. There is always going to be the first time you have sex. You might say its virginal sex because she has never been with you nor you with her so there is that similar tensions that may have built up during the dating period. She’ll let you know when she is ready to take that next step so when she does be ready to step up. “The Virgin” In this day and age...
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