An article By: Larry D. Miller What causes someone to cheat? There may be any number of issues that are happening not only in the relationship but within the individuals involved in the relationship. Many couples that have had cheating enter their relationship will probably say they never saw it coming. It’s most likely that they did but chose to turn a blind eye to it. Denial is a defense mechanism in an attempt not only to protect the heart but the mind. If I don’t acknowledge it I don’t have to deal with it. It doesn't exist. One of the most prevalent snake bites in the relationship is a breakdown in communication. This can occur not only with one another but with one’s self. Ignorance is bliss. Or is it? Most experts would probably say you have to deal with the elephant in the room. Whether it be issues about work (too much or too less etc.) Money, the children or not having the intimacy you once enjoyed early on in the relationship. You mus...
“What are we doing, are we just going through the motions of a dying love affair? We are two people riding the same train but with different destinations”. Looking back it might not be so hard to understand how you ended up here. It is what it is It is what it is. At least that’s what I’ve heard people say. But is it really though? It’s funny in a sense. Life takes some amazing and some not so amazing twist and turns. It throws you for loops, riding the adventures of the highs and the lows. Do you sometimes get the feeling that there always seem to be more lows than highs. To use a couple of analogies- it might feel like you are always just trying to keep your head above water. And what happens if neither of you know how to swim? Eventually you both drown in an emotional pool of despair. Second, it’s like riding one of those mechanical bulls, it starts out nice and easy and you start to feel like yeah I got this. Then it speeds up jerks ...
Everything starts with a dream. Martin Luther King had a dream that he formulated into an idea. That idea sparked a plan on how to make that dream a reality. What started as one man’s dream motivated a people to change a nation. You see those of us that lived through and came after the Civil Rights Movement are a continuing living cell of that dream. From Dr. King’s dream came the idea that a skinny unknown Black senator could become the First Black president of these United States. It may not have been Barack Obama’s dream to be president but through the Dream of Dr.King he began to envision the idea that a young senator from Chicago, Il. could be our first Black President. From his idea he formulated a plan of stirring inspiration and hope within the people. That plan sparked a movement to once again change the face of this nation. Yes many of us have turned our dreams into a reality in some form or fashion. Never let anyone say to you that dreams don’t come t...
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