An article By: Larry D. Miller What causes someone to cheat? There may be any number of issues that are happening not only in the relationship but within the individuals involved in the relationship. Many couples that have had cheating enter their relationship will probably say they never saw it coming. It’s most likely that they did but chose to turn a blind eye to it. Denial is a defense mechanism in an attempt not only to protect the heart but the mind. If I don’t acknowledge it I don’t have to deal with it. It doesn't exist. One of the most prevalent snake bites in the relationship is a breakdown in communication. This can occur not only with one another but with one’s self. Ignorance is bliss. Or is it? Most experts would probably say you have to deal with the elephant in the room. Whether it be issues about work (too much or too less etc.) Money, the children or not having the intimacy you once enjoyed early on in the relationship. You mus...
Welcome to Chicago,now run. Voices in my head telling me to run because it ain’t your time to die tonight. I'm sweating and out of breath. Don’t know which way to go just know I have to keep moving like the wind. Standing in unfamiliar places and staring at the darkness that’s before me. I forge ahead not knowing if I will emerge from the other side. Feeling my way I can’t see my hand in front of my face. My heart is racing, my breath is short and quick. Is this fear or has d eath found me here in the hour of midnight? Voices in my head say it’s not death but adrenaline pumping through your veins. Run. I keep moving until I see the light and I burst through like a crack of sunlight through a bedroom curtain. I am the dawn. I am the light. I stand here with life coursing through my body shaken but not defeated. Rejuvenated from my experience, thankful to be alive and thankful for the voices in my head that led me through the night and back home to you. Wri...
First Times There’s the first time you touch her, the first time you caress her and then there is the first kiss. The first kiss can make or break you in the beginning of your courtship. If you go in wrong it’s a wrap. For example No woman wants to feel like they are about to be swallowed whole as you come in with mouth wide opened. Make careful use of the tongue, wait for her if she slips you a little you can reciprocate but don’t try to touch the back of her throat. Remember it’s the first one. Take your time put some passion and tenderness in it and make it the most soul stirring kiss she’s ever had. There is always going to be the first time you have sex. You might say its virginal sex because she has never been with you nor you with her so there is that similar tensions that may have built up during the dating period. She’ll let you know when she is ready to take that next step so when she does be ready to step up. “The Virgin” In this day and age...
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