The Dating Dance

First Times

There’s the first time you touch her, the first time you caress her and then there is the first kiss. The first kiss can make or break you in the beginning of your courtship.

If you go in wrong it’s a wrap. For example No woman wants to feel like they are about to be swallowed whole as you come in with mouth wide opened. Make careful use of the tongue, wait for her if she slips you a little you can reciprocate but don’t try to touch the back of her throat. Remember it’s the first one.

Take your time put some passion and tenderness in it and make it the most soul stirring kiss she’s ever had.

There is always going to be the first time you have sex.

You might say its virginal sex because she has never been with you nor you with her so there is that similar tensions that may have built up during the dating period.

She’ll let you know when she is ready to take that next step so when she does be ready to step up.
“The Virgin”

In this day and age you will probably be hard pressed to meet the woman of your dreams who just happens to be a virgin. If you ask most women what their first experience was like you might get a slight sigh of it was okay. Take note of this reaction because it probably means it did not live up to those expectations that had been put upon her psyche for so long.

Most guys have no clue what to do with a virgin woman, which should probably explains why it’s not that memorable for the woman. Oh yeah he might be thinking he tore it up and she was going to remember him as being her first forever. She might very well remember it, but that doesn’t mean it will be a favorable memory.

Power

If she so desires to have relationships involving sex, in time she comes to learns not only  what she wants in bed but how to convey it to her lover.

Women hold the power to sway a man to do just what they want. Some know this while others have yet to figure it out. It’s lethal to a man’s emotions when he has given himself emotionally as well as physically to a woman. She has the power to uplift or bring him down to his knees if she chooses to do so.

For many of us guys, we don’t even realize how helpless we are to that power.

Wonder why some men can’t seem to leave a woman that treats him like dog doo?

It’s because he is in a vacuum known as the vagina. He’s sucked and tucked in so tight he forgets his own name. The same effect takes place for a man that feels like he’s in a magical comfort zone.

In both cases he is held helpless by this power.

In essence this feeling can be a beautiful thang but then again it could also be his downfall.

This dates back to Adam and Eve and with all of the self help experts and books, men and women continue with the seduction of the dance hoping in a quest to find the perfect partner.

Written By: Larry D. Miller