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All my life I’ve waited so long just to hear someone say that I make their day. I wondered what would it feel like to fill the memories of a lover’s past that never fade, memories that we remanence on the whole night through. Someone that I can love and feel that love in return, a love I can count on to always be there. I have so much love in my heart to give. I just needed someone to give it to. I want that someone to be you. I’m not chasing a foolish dream for you are as real as the sky and the sea. You have the kind of smile that could light the eastern seaboard, as bright as the sun in the month of May. I would give anything to have that smile greet me at the start of each and every day. When I look at you I see something that I have never seen before. Someone looking back at me with loving eyes and open arms. Someone to love. Someone to come home to. I’ve waited all my life to hear someone say that they love me. I’ve waited oh so long to give that pers

First Times There’s the first time you touch her, the first time you caress her and then there is the first kiss.  The first kiss can make or break you in the beginning of your courtship. If you go in wrong it’s a wrap. For example No woman wants to feel like they are about to be swallowed whole as you come in with mouth wide opened. Make careful use of the tongue, wait for her if she slips you a little you can reciprocate but don’t try to touch the back of her throat.  Remember it’s the first one. Take your time put some passion and tenderness in it and make it the most soul stirring kiss she’s ever had. There is always going to be the first time you have sex. You might say its virginal sex because she has never been with you nor you with her so there is that similar tensions that may have built up during the dating period. She’ll let you know when she is ready to take that next step so when she does be ready to step up. “The Virgin” In this day and age you will

Crowded Room You captivated as soon as you walked into the room. Every man from corner to corner could not take their eyes off you. Temptation eyes and a devilish grin. Legs so long I did not know from where they end to where they begin. It was a race of clumsy fools as we made our way to get some attention from you. I did not know how but i knew I had to try , so I offered to buy you a drink and when you looked at me with those eyes I felt my knees begin to go weak. I was like butter in a hot frying pan melting away and I did not give a damn. One night with you alone would be  like a thousand nights of bliss. I could have died from the anticipation of your sweet kiss. Lips like wine, so soft like velvets touch. I never thought that I could be this gone by this much. They talk about an hour glass shape but I love the thickness of those hips and the way that they swerve. I can’t wait  to run my hands

There’s a coldness in the air while q uietness stills the room. They battle for the occupancy of the space. Either way , win or lose their battle insures  our suffocation.  The conversations we once had filled with the hope of tomorrow has been stripped away and we’re splattered with destitution and disgust. We struggle with finding the simplest of niceties to share with or about one another. Good morning, how are you, thank you and not to mention I love you are scattered few and far between. This right now, surely is not what we envisioned for ourselves oh so many years ago, but nevertheless here we are. Two people lost in our lives not really sure just what we are doing.  And what of the love we held so dear and shined so bright?I believe it’s still  there however it has been dulled by the muck and mud of life and no matter how hard we have tried to wash it off it still remains. What I wouldn’t do for a breath of fresh air. What would it feel like to see you greet me wit

For decades we have cheered and jeered them. Professional athletes our hero’s; some of us treat them like Gods or family members, we are emotionally tied to them. Maybe it’s because these select specimens have the ability to do and live the life many fans would give just about anything to to to do. But as it is they are mere human beings vulnerable to the exploitations and temptations that all of us are. Weakness is a human trait yet most fans find it intolerable especially when it comes to cheating. Yes cheating in sports, it happens and fans can be unforgiving of this act. Performance enhancing drugs have been such a blight on today’s game and it’s athletes. It’s cheating and many athletes have fallen to the temptation to do them. But there is another form of cheating that is running rampant throughout the sports world and Infidelity is it’s name. To be blunt CHEATING. You’ve seen the headlines and read the stories on television and social media. Athletes cheating on

You often hear through social media, talk shows and relationship experts what women should look for in a man. There's nothing wrong with this advice but Shouldn't it be just as important to ask men what they look for and or expect from a woman? Men take just as much value in their self worth as women and want to be appreciated for it. Most men would like to have someone who is supportive, caring, thoughtful, attentive but not smothering. They also want a woman that has her own goals individuality and independence. At the same time most men don’t want to be hit over the head with those qualities. The one thing no man wants is a woman with a superiority complex.  Women often wonder why men are so laid back with expressing their feelings. This may stem from being hurt or disappointed in previous relationships. Many men like women have given their all to someone they thought they were building towards a lasting relationship.  They may have even been hopeful that

Everything starts with a dream. Martin Luther King had a dream that he formulated into an idea. That idea sparked a plan on how to make that dream a reality. What started as one man’s dream motivated a people to change a nation. You see those of us that lived through and came after the Civil Rights Movement are a continuing living cell of that dream. From Dr. King’s dream came the idea that a skinny unknown Black senator could become the First Black president of these United States. It may not have been Barack Obama’s dream to be president but through the Dream of Dr.King he began to envision the idea that a young senator from Chicago, Il. could be our first Black President. From his idea he formulated a plan of stirring inspiration and hope within the people. That plan sparked a movement to once again change the face of this nation. Yes many of us have turned our dreams into a reality in some form or fashion. Never let anyone say to you that dreams don’t come t